Memorial Day originated probably as Decoration Day when, in the south, people went out the graves of the Civil War fallen and decorated them, mostly one suspects, with flowers. The observance fairly quickly moved north and eventually became a more-or-less national observance on May 30, After World War I the observance was expanded to commemorate all of the veteran dead, which is more or less where it is today.
None of this is to suggest that there should be no celebrations on Memorial Day or games, no travel, no weekend fishing, just that moving days to make an observance — any observance — into nothing more important that just one more long weekend is somewhat degrading to remembrance and maybe to the people involved, which is what has happened.
Of course some of us still go out and place flags and perhaps flowers at the graves U.S. servicemen and former U.S. servicemen, but making it into another long weekend spoils the focus. This is not to suggest that we should run around with long faces and spend the day praying at graveside, or go around hugging veterans, who would probably be embarrassed. But the focus should be at least to some extent on the men and women, who over the years have preserved this nation through the sacrifice of their lives, their limbs of even just years of their youth.
It wasn't — or doesn't seem — too many years ago when many or perhaps most men in this country were military veterans. This no longer is the case and even though men are still required to register for the draft, no one gets drafted. Our military services are now made up of volunteers,
Our veterans from Vietnam, many of whom were draftees who really didn't want to go to war, received no welcome when they came home; in fact they were often vilified, especially by young (college) people. They were the targets for all kinds of insults and even attacks. To a lesser extent this also had applied to returning Korean War vets and no one wonders how long it will be until the young elitists begin — if they haven't already — calling troops in the Mideast "baby killers" and worse.
Without trying to justify Vietnam for example it should be noted that when, under political pressure, our troops were withdrawn from Vietnam, and almost immediate bloodbath followed.
So, anyway, why should we care about veterans, especially those didn't go to Korea or Vietnam or Iraq or any of a dozen other places.
Well, the men and women serving in the armed forces from about 1946 to about 1990, whether at home or overseas, are almost certainly the reason the world has so far escaped nuclear war. I'm think here especially of SAC (Strategic Air Command) aircrews waiting on the flight lines for orders to go; and the Navy with its battle groups constantly on patrol around the world. Then there were Marine Corps and Army men and women, any or all of whom could have been sent off to some distant and probably very dangerous place on very short notice.
These are the forgotten troops, the peacekeepers who kept the peace just by being available, but they were the reason that even though there were abundant nuclear weapons available, not one was used. Ronald Reagan's MAD (Mutually Assured Destruction) was nothing new; it simply sort of codified what came before.
I'm really rattling on here, but the point is that willing or unwilling members of the large veteran population in the United States are — or were — the reason that the people who complain about our "vicious" troops somewhere in the world are still free to do so.
Memorial Day, even though it has been reduced to nothing more than a long weekend, should still be a time to remember why we still have a free nation.
